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grief

The Bot Is the Refusal

A generative chatbot that answers for the dead does not preserve a person; it preserves the living's refusal to let them become past. On grief, continuing bonds, and the difference between a voice and a life.

November 9, 2026 · essay · 7 min · grief · ai · memory · technology

Close Enough to Call Her Back

The real danger in de-extinction is not that it fails but that it partly works, giving just enough proof of return to make extinction feel provisional and teach us to mourn badly.

July 19, 2026 · essay · 8 min · de-extinction · grief · conservation · science

The Bear at the Gate

Paddington bears and marmalade sandwiches at palace gates revealed the private time people store inside public institutions, and the cost when those institutions change.

September 13, 2022 · essay · 10 min · grief · institutions · monarchy · memory